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Begin a conversationWho actually does this work?
A small core team that does the sensemaking, the orientation work and the coordination, plus named outside experts brought in per topic. There is no research department and we do not pretend there is one.
The person responsible for a family's engagement is named in the engagement letter, and is the person a family deals with. Where a brief depends on an outside expert, that expert is named on the brief.
What does it cost?
A fixed fee for the 90-day pilot, quoted in the first conversation and agreed in writing before any work begins. No percentage of assets, no success fee, no carry.
If the pilot leads to an ongoing relationship, that is a retainer agreed separately. Nothing renews automatically and nothing is contingent on a transaction happening.
What is the track record?
Third Attractor is new. There is no multi-year performance record to point to, and a page claiming one would be the first thing worth distrusting.
That is precisely why the first product is a 90-day pilot rather than a membership: it is short enough to judge on its own merits, the output is written down, and at the end the family decides whether anything of value happened.
How does this sit alongside the advisers we already have?
Alongside, not instead. We do not manage assets, hold custody, give regulated investment advice, or replace legal, tax or investment counsel. The existing adviser relationships stay as they are.
What is usually missing is the layer above them: a single map of what the family is trying to do, and the capacity to take a question deep enough to act on. Advisers are generally included in the work rather than worked around.
What do you do that our family office does not?
We are not trying to replace the family office. A family office is responsible for running an extraordinary range of financial, administrative and personal responsibilities, and doing that well is a full job.
Third Attractor is narrower. We build intelligence around consequential questions, connect it to the family's stated priorities, and carry selected decisions across advisers, experts and forms of capital. Most family offices are structured to execute well and have no capacity to investigate a question for six weeks.
What do you do that an investment consultant does not?
An investment consultant answers questions inside a portfolio: allocation, manager selection, structure, risk. That work is valuable and we do not do it.
Our questions start before the portfolio and often end outside it. What is changing in the world, what does it mean for this family specifically, and what is the right instrument — which may be an investment, may be a grant, may be an introduction, and may be deciding not to act at all.
What happens when you disagree with the family?
We say so clearly, give the reasons, and record the disagreement in the decision record alongside the decision itself.
Then the family decides. It is their capital and their name. The value of writing the disagreement down is that both sides can look at it later and see who was right, which is how judgment improves on both sides of the table.
How do you measure whether this is working?
Against observable things, not against the word impact. Decisions made and decisions declined. Time from question to decision. Opportunities rejected and why. Whether theses held up when tested later.
Also: risks discovered that the family had not seen, actions actually executed rather than merely recommended, and what the family learned from decisions that did not work. If none of these move in 90 days, the engagement has not earned a renewal.
Where is AI used, and where do people decide?
AI is used for breadth — scanning, drafting, pattern-finding across more material than a small team could read. It is a research instrument, not a source of authority.
Judgment, conviction levels, what to decline and what to put in front of a family are human decisions by named people. Nothing reaches a family as fact because a model asserted it.
Who produces the intelligence?
Named people, not an unattributed house view. Each brief carries the author, the date, the evidence it rests on and the parts that are judgment rather than fact.
Where we rely on outside expertise, the expert is named and the basis of their involvement is disclosed. Where we do not have the expertise, we say so and go and find it rather than writing around the gap.
How are opportunities selected?
Every opportunity shown must connect to a priority the family has already stated in its Capital Compass. Relevance comes first; availability does not create relevance.
It then has to survive initial screening and appear more useful than the alternatives currently available. If we cannot write the reason it is being shown in two sentences, it is not shown.
How do you handle conflicts?
Any interest we hold in an opportunity — direct, indirect, present or prospective — is disclosed on the page where the opportunity appears, not in a footnote elsewhere.
Where another family in the network is also looking at something, each family is told, and neither is told anything about the other's position without permission.
How does diligence work?
The standard format is evidence, risks, alternatives, unknowns and a documented next step. Conviction is stated as a level with reasons, never as certainty.
Specialist diligence — legal, tax, technical, operational — is scoped with the family and run by the appropriate professionals. We coordinate it; we do not pretend to replace it.
Does Third Attractor receive transaction economics?
The intention is a straightforward retained relationship, so that the advice is not paid for by the deal happening.
If any transaction-related economics were ever contemplated in a specific case, they would be disclosed in writing in advance and would require the family's explicit agreement. Terms are agreed per engagement and set out in the engagement letter.
Who makes the final decision?
The family. Always. Third Attractor's work is to make the decision better informed and properly recorded, including the decision to decline.
Nothing is executed on a family's behalf without written instruction from the people the family has authorised.
What information is private?
The Capital Compass, the family's holdings, constraints and open questions are confidential by default and are not shared across the network without specific written permission.
Intelligence work is written so that it can be useful to more than one family without exposing any one of them. Where a brief draws on a family's own situation, that family controls whether it is shared.
What happens in the first 90 days?
Days 1–14: listen. Days 15–30: the Capital Compass and an initial intelligence map. Month 2: the first briefing and one deep dive. Month 3: work through a real decision and review the relationship.
The test at the end: does this family understand more clearly, discover things it would not have found alone, and make better decisions because Third Attractor exists?
Start withone real engagement.
Long enough to work on real decisions. Short enough to judge us by the result.
The family, the advisers if useful, the portfolio as it is. What you care about, what you fear, what you want to understand.
The Capital Compass: five priorities, the constraints, the contradictions, the open questions, and what is explicitly out of scope.
What Matters Now, then one or two topics taken deep with the domain experts who actually hold the answer. Not a generic briefing.
Source, filter hard, diligence two or three. Explore, Watch or Decline — then implement one real action if one deserves it.
What did you think at the start, what changed, what did you act on, was this useful, and what should happen next.
Did we help the family see something earlier, understand something better, or make a better decision? If yes, we decide together whether the relationship should continue. If not, it should not.
Independent families.Shared intelligence when useful.
The goal is not to make families think alike. It is to make it easier to coordinate when coordination creates real value.
Sometimes one connection changes what becomes possible.